The holidays are a magical time for kids, filled with decorations, celebrations and a break from school. But during the fun and festivities, parents must remember that this season can also bring an increased risk to children’s safety.
Amid all the activities and family gatherings, children may face an environment where the risk of abuse quietly rises.
Quick Tips for Holiday Safety:
- Teach Body Autonomy: Remind your child that they don’t owe anyone a hug or kiss, not even a family member, if they don’t feel comfortable. Empower them to understand that their body belongs to them, and they can decide how they feel about any touch.
- Introduce Body Boundaries: Talk with your child about personal boundaries and emphasize that they alone have the right to decide on acceptable touch. Even harmless gestures like a high five, handshake or fist bump should be on their terms.
- Define Safe and Unsafe Touches: Safe touches bring joy and comfort, while unsafe touches can feel confusing or uncomfortable. Help your child recognize these differences.
- Distinguish Safe and Unsafe Secrets: A “safe” secret brings joy, like a surprise party, whereas an “unsafe” secret may confuse or scare a child. Make it clear that an adult should never ask a child to keep an unsafe secret.
- Practice Assertiveness: For situations that feel uncomfortable, equip your child with an “I Mean Business” voice. Encourage them to practice saying, “Stop! That’s not safe!” loudly and confidently.
- Create a Trusted Triangle: Encourage your child to identify three adults they can confide in, whether about a bad dream, a disagreement or an unsafe secret or touch. Remind your child that when it comes to safety situations, they must always go to someone in their trusted triangle for help.
Have a safe and happy holiday season!
